By Gus Saltonstall
Edward S. Frese Jr., known as Ted, had just finished a meal with his girlfriend on December 18 at French Roast on West 85th Street and Broadway. As he walked out of the restaurant, an employee handed him his wallet, which he had momentarily misplaced.
After exiting, Frese crossed the street to make his way to Zabar’s.
“When I was in Zabar’s, I realized I didn’t have my wallet to pay for anything,” he told West Side Rag.
His first thought was that he was carrying a larger set of keys than usual and, combined with his shallow pants pockets, the wallet had most likely slipped out during the short walk. He quickly retraced his steps, but there was no sight of it.
Frese returned home to cancel his credit cards and get a new license.
What he did not know, at that point, was that a pair of nearby Con Edison employees had picked up the wallet and already begun the process of getting it back into the hands of its rightful owner.
“Often times people find a wallet and they take the money out and contact you and say there was no money in the wallet, and I was thinking that might be a possibility,” Frese said about any chance of his wallet being returned. “I was hopeful.”
Meanwhile, John Marsch, a mechanic in Transmission Operations for Con Edison, along with his partner, had picked up the wallet and were planning the best course of action to get it back to Frese.
“It was around Christmas time,” Marsch told the Rag. “I know what kind of burden it is to lose something as important as a wallet around Christmas, when you’re traveling, need your license, credit cards, money, and my partner and I wanted to make sure we got that wallet back into the right person’s hands.”
Frese’s wallet included club memberships, which Marsch reached out to and left a callback number, but after a few days a return call had not come.
Next, Marsch went online and found a number for a man with the same last name as Frese, who was living in Florida. That man ended up being Frese’s son, and, after a quick conversation, he put his father and Marsch in touch.
Frese confirmed the contents of the wallet to Marsch, who subsequently told him he would mail it his way.
“We work for Con Ed, so we’re out there in the streets, trying to serve the public. More than just putting wires together [and] keeping the electricity going, we try to do the right thing and help people out,” Marsch told West Side Rag. “If I lost my wallet, I’d want somebody to get it back to me.”
The saga didn’t end there, though.
Due to a mistake by UPS, the wallet ended up taking an accidental journey to California. Marsch continued to call Frese and the postal service to make sure the wallet eventually reached the right place. After two weeks, it finally made it to Frese’s home in New York City.
The only problem? Frese wasn’t there. He had traveled down to Florida to spend the holidays with his family!
Frese returned to the city in the beginning of January to find his wallet waiting for him — with all the money and cards still there. Marsch called again once Frese made it back home to confirm that he had gotten the wallet.
“It’s really extraordinary in my opinion, that he [Marsch] took the time to try to find me, because there wasn’t a phone number to immediately reach me with,” Frese said about the experience. “And then, to send it to me. There was still money in it when it got to me, as well as all of the cards.”
“How often does that happen?” he asked.
On Thursday, Frese met Marsch in person near French Roast to properly thank the longtime Con Edison employee in person (photo above).
“Really extraordinary,” Frese repeated.
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I love this so much!!
Yes! In decades past, I worked as a consultant at Con Ed on 14th Steet. The men and women there were fantastic, and whenever contract negotiations occurred, they kept cool under extreme management pressure. They were always kind, thoughtful, and diligent. Three cheers for John Marsch and Local 1-2.
Restores my faith…there ARE good people out there. I hope Mr. Marsch’s superiors at ConEd read this and reward him appropriately. Not that he expects anything other than Mr. Frese’s gratitude, but to reinforce the type of employee Con Ed should want representing their company.
I agree wholeheartedly!!!
Marsch is such a nice guy ! I hope he has a great 2024 and everything goes his way !
FANTASTIC! HI TED!
Happy ending 😊👍
I was in riverside park last spring and sat down on a bench by Eleanor entrance. There was a purse. No one around . Luckily I was in no hurry so I sat there guarding it figuring the owner would retrace her steps. Still no one came. So I opened it and looked in her wallet for ID. Drivers license had picture of her of course. And a relatively 4-5 blocks nearby address. By then another woman was sitting on a nearby bench. I told her my situation and showed her the picture of the young woman. Waited some more. She agreed to stay there for a bit while I tried to find her (with purse in tote) at her apartment. She would tell anyone who came looking and looked like the DL pic where I had gone. As I stood up and started walking a distressed young red-head ran past me— it was she! She got back to the bench just ahead of me but my look-out companion and I both called out her name at once(from driver’s license) and a very startled but relieved young woman was gratefully reunited with her purse!My advice is if possible stay put with the item for a bit while the owner retraces their steps👍
But kudos to con Ed heroes either way💕
Agreed. I’ve done that with at least one dog and 2 phones. I volunteer in Riverside Park, and folks lose/leave things all of the time. I do my utmost to make sure they get back to the original owner, if there is any possible way to do so.
This is so wonderful. May Mr. Marsch and his co-worker have their best year ever.
I’m so proud of the Con Ed workers who returned this man’s wallet. I too did the same thing when I found a wallet in a taxi. Wound up finding the woman’s grandmother in Ohio who told me her granddaughter was vacationing in NYC.
Although this is a happy story, the sad truth is that this shouldn’t even be a story. This should be a normal occurrence that would not be news worthy.
It’s so sad that this is what has become of humanity. It should be that this is the norm.
Great story, and great story by Anne below!
3 Cheers also for Kathleen Murphy of Friends of Verdi Square. A wallet was found near Broadway under a bush in the fenced part of the garden, and Kathleen went through a similar process to locate the owner who had been robbed on the subway. She was also successful returning the wallet to the owner. UWS gardeners are particularly good citizens and Con Ed employees are such good citizens!
One lesson to be learned is to carry on you the minimum # of id and credit cards. The inconvenience to replace them will be much less.
Just so I understand this correctly. First he left his wallet in the restaurant and someone returned it to him. Then he immediately lost it again?
Ahhhh the days when we all had landlines and someone could just look us up in the phone book (or online). Would’ve saved about 4 weeks of trouble in this particular case. 🙂
We still have a landline phone. You can easily find me online.
Yes, it’s expensive but worth it. Just think back to 911? Cell phones stopped after the towers collapsed. The antenna’s were ontop of the towers.
Lovely story – another good samaritan one for you: my daughter drove out of the city to look at a bicycle for sale. Put her purse on the trunk of the car….drove off and of course it flew off the car. Someone was driving along this road and saw things scattered and stopped, gathered what she found and then got worried – was this girl kidnapped or something??? She got her daughter to use FaceBook to track down my daughter – How, I’d not know, that’s for the young folks to understand! But the mother and my daughter met for her to get her belongings and the lovely lady did share a few words of advice! Hahaha.
I love this story so much. I was hanging on every detail and love that the West Side Rag took the time to share it this way. It’s my prayer that more stories like this (especially about New Yorkers) end up where more people can read them. I believe in a future where more of us are looking for good stories to share over bad. 🙏🏻
I had a similar story to John Marsch. I too was employed at ConEdison in N.Y. I have moved on & work as a power lineman in Connecticut. I was walking out a traffic sign for that day’s work. I happen to notice a wallet in the gutter. I picked it up & put it in my pocket. We finished our job & we took lunch. After lunch I opened the wallet to see who it belonged to? Ofcourse the money was long gone. I dug deeper & found a small piece of paper with the owners phone number on it. I called him up to tell him I found his wallet. He said he lost it the previous year. I told him where I found it. He claims he left it on the roof of his car when he became distracted. He said he replaced everything in his wallet already. However he asked if his lucky $2 bills were in his wallet? I told him they were. He couldn’t believe it? He was over my house in twenty minutes & couldn’t believe he was re-united with his lucky $2 bills.
Great story and lovely picture. I found a wallet once (CVS self-checkout) and located its owner. The young man made no eye contact and said a very dry “thanks” as he walked away. I’m glad that Frese was appreciative.