by Yvonne Vávra
Yesterday, we celebrated Independence Day, and for many, it might have felt a little strange to be cheering our freedom from a king. The Declaration of Independence lays out three fundamental truths: that we’re all created equal and have the rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness; that government exists to protect these rights; and that we’re free to speak up or even revolt if it fails to do so.
It’s fun to raise a glass and grill a burger in honor of these ideals. But I imagine for many of us, that sense of freedom lasted only as long as it took for the fireworks to flash, bang, and then make the sky dark again.
Still, even when many feel trapped, silenced, and powerless, one kind of freedom remains available to all of us: the freedom to think for ourselves. With inconceivable events unfolding at dizzying speed, it’s hard to believe anything can be done to stop them. But even if we don’t yet know what to do, we shouldn’t lose our minds — because in the mind, liberty endures. We’re free to question boldly and imagine something better. That kind of thinking might come in handy, once we’re ready.
The Upper West Side has long been a hub for independent thinking and expression — a place that has attracted those unafraid to challenge norms, rethink assumptions, and explore new perspectives. This whole neighborhood, after all, got its start in large part because one man dared to think against the stream. In the late 19th century, no one believed New Yorkers with money would ever want to live in our part of Manhattan. But Edward Cabot Clark had his own mind. He built a luxurious apartment building to lure the wealthy out of their downtown mansions to the muddy grounds of what is now 72nd Street and Central Park West: into the Dakota. People called it “Clark’s folly.” After all, living door-to-door with other families wasn’t something the wealthy wished for at the time, especially not on dusty roads with goats and pigs strolling by.
Sure, Clark was chasing a real estate win. But what makes his move remarkable is that he was willing to bet on change no one else believed in. He trusted that social norms would shift and that people just didn’t know what they wanted yet. He was right. The Dakota helped make apartment living fashionable and kick-started the development of the Upper West Side into one of the city’s most desirable neighborhoods.
Clark’s boldness is part of the independent spirit that still defines this place. There’s a reason we can still buy bagels, sturgeon, books, and shoes from long-standing businesses that have resisted selling out. Independent minds tend to build independent places.
It takes courage and clarity to recognize that things don’t have to keep moving in the direction they’re going. Take one Upper West Side woman who loved New York — but hated that her windowsills were always coated with black soot. Marcy Benstock of West 100th Street didn’t believe that all that grime was just an inevitable part of big city life. So in 1971, she launched the Upper West Side Air Pollution Campaign, later renamed the Clean Air Campaign.
What truly lit a fire in her mind was the proposed Westway project, a massive covered highway that would run from the Battery to 42nd Street. Backed by every major decision maker — from labor unions and business elites, to the Mayor, the Governor, and even the President — the highway seemed unstoppable. Benstock thought: But what if I could stop it?
She didn’t want more cars dumped onto Upper West Side streets. She didn’t want landfill pumped into the Hudson. And she didn’t think an expressway was the future New York needed. So private citizen Marcy Benstock went on a single-minded, fact-driven crusade that lasted more than a decade. She was a quiet, clean fighter who questioned dominant ideas, educated herself, and built a campaign on data and persistence that ultimately derailed the project. Even her opponents respected her tenacity: “I hope next time we will be on the same side,” Governor Mario Cuomo wrote in a telegram after giving up his Westway dreams.
We may not all take on a highway, but we can still tap into that same spirit of mental independence. The Upper West Side is a great place to reclaim our thoughts, even though it will be a challenge. These days, it’s hard to make conscious choices about what deserves space in our minds. We’ve let technologies engineered to hijack our attention come too close. Before we even notice, we’re pulled out of ourselves — distracted, scattered, elsewhere. And the more we get used to constant interruption, the harder it becomes to be alone — just us and our own thoughts.
But we can take our attention back — by going for a walk in the neighborhood. No phone. I dare you. Let these streets wipe your mind clean of the clutter our culture throws at you to keep you busy and away from yourself. You’re free to not care about what you never wanted to know in the first place. The attention economy can’t reach you out here. And with every step, you get better at not craving the interruption. Feels almost rebellious, doesn’t it? All you have to do is wander and wonder, let yourself be swept up in the Upper West Vibe, and let your own thoughts come home.
Yvonne Vávra is a magazine writer and author of the German book 111 Gründe New York zu lieben (111 Reasons to Love New York). Born a Berliner but an aspiring Upper West Sider since the 1990s (thanks, Nora Ephron), she came to New York in 2010 and seven years later made her Upper West Side dreams come true. She’s been obsessively walking the neighborhood ever since.
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This is wonderful. I’ve lived on the UWS since 1972 and didn’t know this history. The piece is also a meditation. Thank you, Yvonne.
Truly, a neighborhood for independent minds …who all believe the same things.
I kid. Sort of. I appreciate the sentiment about putting down the phone and actually thinking for yourself!
(and now I will put down my own phone.)
This article is ironic given the tenor of material posted on this site for the UWS – as plainly today independent thinking only in specific approved directions is acceptable. Congestion pricing and bike lanes – yay – opposition thereto – only favored by those who must surely be uneducated troglodytes. Disregarding immigration law – yay – whereas greatly valuing legal immigrants who choose to comply with immigration and all our other laws – only for those benighted souls who are insufficiently noble. Failing to protect Jewish students in public school and colleges and voting into dem primary lead a candidate who refuses to disavow horrible anti Jewish sentiments – fashionable – whereas shutting down pro hamas activists on campus – not fashionable, see also Claire Shipman.
Proof of this groupthink is that either this comment will not be posted at all, or if posted will be flooded with “(fill in blank perjorative) phobe/ism” responses. It is not independence of thought, in short, but rather approved group think that the UWS values today.
Thanks for this heart-warming article, Vávra!
One of my favorite authors is Fiona Davis. She writes historical fiction about landmark buildings. She wrote The Address about the building of the Dakota amidst the wilds of the very northern part of the West Side of Manhattan. Sounds funny but that’s what happened. I recommend this and all her books honoring the likes of Grand Central Station, The Frick, the Chelsea and many more.
Photographic evidence of the Dakota’s UWS trailblazing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:The_Dakota_1890b.jpg .
Of course it also makes a good base of operations for time travel….
Wonderful article! Inspiring and comforting!!
Always, so interesting! Getting the impression of Upper Westside a kind of diamond in Manhattan….:)
Yvonne, you could write about about a hangnail and turn it into the most poetic, evocative, insightful, exciting, meditative, restorative, delightful, intriguing (list of positive adjectives ad nauseum) subject ever! Thank you for your essays!
Excellent article Yvonne…yours is one of my favorites feature of the WSR!
thank you 🌺, I knew I loved my neighborhood for a reason, I just kinda forgot.
Thank you for this. Your articles always give me food for thought.
I love Yvonne’s writing!
Thank you for this graceful and inspiring essay!
Vávra is a delightful writer. Her prose inspires me to spontaneous narration of her stories to the delight of my husband, sitting across from me, reading the Times on his tablet.
We’re wannabe UWS’ers, dwelling instead. PT, on the UES so as to be minutes from the grandkids. I’m a lifelong Californian, enjoying my PT NY life, and in all honesty, shhhh, don’t tell my Lennox neighbors, love my days on the UWS…running errands, exploring! Had I been given a chance to learn more about the UWS in my younger years, I might have abandoned CA long ago.
I walked past the Q Florist bear display a couple days ago. The American flag was hanging upside down (in current parlance this is a sign of a nation in distress). I believe it was intentional and not simply an accident perpetrated by the wind and weather. It was the day of or day after the BBB passed the House.
Update:
The management of Q Florist diligently handle the problem within 30 minutes after being notified.
How disturbed can someone be to try and turn a great gesture by a local business in to political issue, instead of thanking the business for maintaining and decorating the bear at their own cost every season and holiday.
It wasn’t done by Q Florist who decorated the Bear for Independence Day but a neighbor from down the street on West 82nd St. did it, but I can’t agree more so with the neighbor.
Thank you, Yvonne. Your essays are always a balm for soul, and this one so timely. Thanks also for the story of local hero Marcy Benstock.
I can attest to the joys of a walking without a phone!
As far as the whirlwind of current events, and figuring out what to do, here are two first-class sources of information, sustenance, wisdom and inspiration:
Robert Hubbell’s Today’s Edition Newsletter: https://roberthubbell.substack.com/
Chop Wood, Carry Water: https://chopwoodcarrywaterdailyactions.substack.com/
Thank you. So true and encouraging
Yvonne Vavra, I love this article!
And while I knew aboutEdward Cabot Clark, Marcy Benstock’s story is new to me.
Thank you!
Great article. We need more heroes like Marcy Benstock who recognize how toxic car traffic is to neighborhoods like ours
Let’s ban all cars on the UWS and see where the cards fall. I do not think even you would like the outcome here.
I just might but there’s no need to jump from one extreme to another. Take some common sense steps first, like car-free school streets and discouraging through-traffic that are treat our streets like a highway.
Amsterdam Avenue is a truck route for a reason. Had we done construction to upgrade the Henry Hudson Parkway into an expressway I am sure you would find any excuse to oppose that as well.
I get it, you don’t live here and would be minorly inconvenienced.
You probably wish you could still drive through Central Park… every time we create car-free spaces in NYC it becomes popular and no one can imagine it otherwise.
I do drive through Central Park and use the buses that go across Central Park too. Oh and those same car free spaces in Central Park are places where you are at high risk of getting zapped by an e-bike now.
Minorly inconvenienced? I mean it is the Manhattanites who are majorly inconvenienced enough to insist that they drive to the outer boroughs or use an uber or use a lyft instead of the same transit options you insist I use. The fact that Manhattan Democrats chartered a private bus last year to Bayside, Queens instead of using public transit and suggested that people drive to canvass sites in support of Tom Suozzi for Congress in a special election that determined the balance of power in the House, says a lot about Manhattanites and what they think of those that lack the privilege to live here.
Sorry, but all those Ukrainian flags and fascist “Glory to Ukraine” posters aren’t examples of a west side that thinks for itself.
What a troll.
Keep on supporting fascists.
And speaking of trolling.
What is so objectionable about supporting a country that is being attacked by one of our chief international antagonists?
Talk about not getting out of group think,
Stop believing everything you read in The NY Times, or the New Yorker, NY Post, The Atlantic, etc. No, the NY Review of Books isn’t credible either, try the London Review of Books.
You have not answered my question.
Most other countries with the exception of China/North Korea have reached the same conclusion. Being contrarian does not make you correct.
I most certainly answered your question. It is the US that has antagonized Russia for 35 years.
The Russian attack on Ukraine in 2022 came after a long series of provocations. That you are unaware of this is not my failure.
Yvonne Vávra is a terrific writer. She writes beautifully in an adopted language in an adopted country and neighborhood. I came here from flyover country in 1971. She’s part of the reason I like the UWS and the people in it. All of them.
Great photo of the Bear
decorated by Nick Bazas courtesy of “Q Florist” for Independence Day on W. 82nd St. at Columbus Avenue just down the street from Nick’s flower shop, one of the most oldest Upper West Side third generation family business since 1968. Opened by the father Gus Bazas, (and my friend) “Q Florist” also known as “Quality Florist,” now run by Gus’s children and grandson, Nick and Stacy alongside Nick’s son, Constantine.
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/06/nyregion/neighborhood-joint-q-florist.html
I normally love Yvonne’s articles and am looking forward to them. This one is an exception (sorry, Yvonne). It seems to praise independent thinking but overall is very conformist.
“It’s only independent thinking if it agrees with me”
Huh? It was beautifully written, inspiring, and certainly not conformist. Do you think all “non-conformists” must have an attitude and always be against everything….signifying they’re a non-conformist? Wrong! Non-conformists love and are inspired, too!! Seems like you might be in a “conformist” way of thinking what a “non-conformist” is.
Much of the UWS is conformist.
Can I please have my own opinion on the article?
Not in this neighborhood. You must conform and agree with everyone else and their politics.
NO!
This is so beautifully written. As a born and bred Upper Westsider, thank you!
Well, written yes, but saying something that is simply untrue of the UWS.
Great reminder!