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‘The Actor Lit Up a Cigarette After We Went Running in Central Park, Then Shared His Mantra for Success’

March 19, 2022 | 5:54 AM
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Photograph by Tony Shek, via Wikimedia Commons.

By Allan Ripp

News of William Hurt’s recent passing has drawn well-deserved eulogies for a gifted screen and stage actor who conveyed both intense intelligence and sex appeal across dozens of memorable roles, from a psychopathologist tapping into his prehistoric animism in Altered States to a hunky news anchor who cries on cue in Broadcast News, to an arrogant physician humbled by cancer in The Doctor.

Hurt’s death saddened me like many fans. But it also rekindled a spark I’ve carried for 45 years, going back to a brief moment when I hung out with him in my early 20s as his career was taking off and my own head was filled with a great future in journalism.

Thanks to a high school friend, I got a gig as an usher at Circle Repertory Theater in 1976 upon arriving in New York after college for a magazine job. I had no designs on an actor’s life, but it was great fun being around a close-knit group of first-rate players at one of city’s the premiere companies. Bill Hurt was part of the Rep’s regular ensemble, along with other young actors on the verge of bigger recognition, including Christopher Reeve, Jeff Daniels and Amy Wright.

Hurt had already done Shakespeare at the Public Theater and would soon have a breakout role in Lanford Wilson’s Fifth of July. Although not intimates, we regularly engaged between performances backstage and I was struck by his confidence and self-assurance, yet without a trace of vanity. That was especially on display in a play called My Life, which ran at Circle Rep for three dozen performances in early 1977.

Hurt played a brilliant physicist examining all facets of his life, including a fraught family history, which meant the action shifted between past and present – Reeve (fresh from auditioning in London for the life-changing part of Superman) played the grandfather and Daniels a younger version of Hurt’s character Eddie. The New York Times called it “confusing and contradictory” but I was enthralled, not least because the set design included a real swimming pool where the actors immersed themselves (first-row patrons were warned they might get wet.)

Hurt’s part called for frequent distracted, existential musings and fits of doubt. I got to stand in the wings each time he came on stage. He’d wink at me, take a healthy, centering breath and bound into the spotlight with complete command, at one point having an imagined dialogue with his dead girlfriend. He was consumed by his character’s inner turmoil, but then bantered easily the moment he exited. His hair was amazing, his bearing patrician and his future stardom apparent.

I was an avid runner back then and asked Bill that spring if he’d want to meet for a loop around Central Park. He showed up at the park’s West 72nd Street entrance across from the Dakota shirtless in micro shorts and squeaky Jack Purcell sneakers better suited for boating. But he admirably kept pace and told me about growing up privileged in Washington, where his stepfather was Henry Luce III, son of Time-Life’s founder. We talked about girls and ambitions – he was only a few years older than me but far more advanced and worldly. To my shock, when we finished our run he lit up a cigarette.

I asked how he stayed so committed to acting and dealt with rejection, something I was feeling at my editorial job, where I didn’t think my talents were being properly appreciated. He answered with Ibsen-like conviction: “Whatever you do, do what you must and don’t let others dictate your actions.”

Watching him perform over the ensuing years, and learning he turned down starring roles in Jurassic Park and Misery, confirmed that he stuck with that mantra. I can’t say I’ve always done the same in my own life — and Hurt was reportedly no paragon of virtue in his. But it’s good after all these years to remember a great actor’s best lines.

Mr. Ripp runs a press relations firm in New York.

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Mark P
Mark P
3 years ago

Nice remembrance Allan, thank you for sharing. From the telling I am younger than you but I was alive in the 70s and 80s and I have what feels like the coined term “anemoia” about this period – I lived through it, but as a boy, not an adult, and I have a sentimental resonance for it as a simpler time.

I think it’s not nostalgia precisely because I don’t, for example, remember things like Altered States (never having watched them) or running in “sneakers” (as opposed to shoes design for specific activity). And I know it wasn’t a “better” time. Economic troubles, the Cold War, smoking for some examples.

But I feel the resonance of experiencing it as boy and teenager,

and sometimes (yes, as an escape from now) wonder what it might have been like to be an adult in this simpler (not better) time

and sometimes get a glimpse watching movies from the period, including the ones Hurt starred in.

Dust to dust.

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Allan Ripp
Allan Ripp
3 years ago
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Such a lovely and thoughtful response! Thank you, wise Mark P.

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Deri
Deri
3 years ago

Nice tribute! Funny thing about the cigarette anecdote. I seem to remember the same thing in a Hurt movie (I think it is Body Heat). He finishes up a run and immediately lights up a cigarette. Oh, the 80s! (I searched YouTube and can’t find the scene, but maybe someone else can, or at least confirm my memory.)

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backatu
backatu
3 years ago

In the movie Body Heat, he ends a run and lights up a cigarette as well.
I met him in 1980. I lived in the same apartment building as did Kathleen Turner, in the west 80’s, on West End Avenue.
I was getting out of the elevator and he was on his way into the lobby.
I pulled a cigarette out of my pocket and he asked to bum one. We stood outside and shared a smoke.
A hell of a guy. I will miss him

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Jen
Jen
3 years ago

Thank you, WSR, for a beautiful tribute. I appreciate nice comments too.

We need more writing like this. It was nice of WSR to write about life and passing of Philip Roth some time ago.

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Ralph
Ralph
3 years ago

Met Mr. Hurt & Christopher Plummer when they filming “Eyewitness” in early 80’s at the old Clairmont stables on 89 ST.

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Betty
Betty
3 years ago

What I recall his his unique voice! Great actor..

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Becky
Becky
3 years ago

To Ralph. My late husband wrote Eyewitness and so we knew Bill Hurt. One day he was harranging my husband, also a smoker, to give it up. He said he had and felt so much better. My husband asked how long ago he had quit and Bill said “I quit this morning!” I doubt his quitting lasted very long, and my husband never did quit. And he would often end a bike ride by lighting up.

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Matilda
Matilda
3 years ago

Oh I love this.

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Jeff Barge
Jeff Barge
3 years ago

Awesome story and great life advice!

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Janice Horowitz
Janice Horowitz
3 years ago

Well done, Allan! So glad you wrote this and got it published. The details are captivating…

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Lynnl
Lynnl
3 years ago

Wonderful.
Thank you

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Theydon Bois
Theydon Bois
3 years ago

I remember how funny I thought it was that in Body Heat they had Hurt’s character light up after a run. Now I know why. Thanks, also,for a great reminder of what’s so wonderful about NYC, all the blooming talent honing their skills.

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JH
JH
3 years ago

Are you folks serious? We get to pick and choose who we apply a “Me too “standard to. He was a known abuser of women and you are all glorifying him. Shame shame!

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Paul
Paul
3 years ago

Beautiful tribute…and you conjure up a wonderful time to be in New York when aspiring writers, journalists, actors could call the City their own and afford to live frugally without roommates. I lived on Riverside/99th and 103rd/West End for the better part of the decade and despite being mugged twice, I always felt I was fortunate to be living in the greatest city in the world.

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Ann Cooper
Ann Cooper
3 years ago

What a lovely tribute! Body Heat is one of my all-time favorite movies, and while I don’t remember that scene specifically, I can envision his character going for a run and then immediately lighting up. And elsewhere in the film, Kathleen Turner says something to him like, “You’re not very smart. I like that in a man.”

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cat.ed
cat.ed
3 years ago

Early 1980s, I — a spacey young woman — was walking up Columbus Avenue. I must have been absentmindedly staring at the guy walking toward me because he gave me a broad smile. Embarrassed, I just looked down until about a block away, when I realized the guy had been handsome William Hurt.
My favorite of his roles? Richie Cusack, a genius portrayal in the brilliant film “A History of Violence.”

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Tom Mooney
Tom Mooney
3 years ago

Alan
Nice memory but this man was a nasty abuser of women (well documented). He doesn’t deserve your kind article. Look into the Rolling Stone interview in the 80’s when his “privileged” attitude scares a server at a restaurant into leaving his post to procure ice cream for him and the interviewer. Bad guy. Silver spoon brat.Better world without him.
Tom Mooney

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Jane
Jane
3 years ago

Great actor but I can’t get over the fact he physically abused his girlfriends. It makes me sick to think a person can do this to another person. Hard for me to read this lovely send off for such an abusive guy.

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Steve Zorn
Steve Zorn
3 years ago
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We lived at 333 CPW On the late70s when Bill and Kathleen were there. Might have been a nice guy at the theater, but at home, not so much.

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Carol
Carol
3 years ago

I have enjoyed the profound insight that Mr. Hurt brought to his performances, For me there was always a sense of something residing in his performance and in his understanding of character that was left unsaid. May his memory be a blessing.

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Gladys
Gladys
3 years ago
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So perfectly expressed. Another unbearable loss.

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Doug Garr
Doug Garr
3 years ago

One of his most memorable scenes: The Doctor at the end. When he tells his med students to put on a hospital gown because they’re checking in as patients. If only in real life…eh? Great actor. Never mailed it in.

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Gail
Gail
3 years ago

I waited on him in the mid 80s at an UWS restaurant. He got very drunk, and made graphically lewd comments to the female wait staff. I also think the women in his life may not have such warm memories.

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PTFLynn
PTFLynn
3 years ago

Thanks Mr. Ripp for your thoughtful tribute.
Jane you say “hard to read”. I can respect that.
Tom you say “better world without him”. Shame on you. Whatever the allegations, and I know nothing about it, your remark is in bad taste.

May his memory be a blessing.

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John E.
John E.
3 years ago
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@ PTFLynn, so I’m guessing you’re giving William Hurt a pass because he was an accomplished actor.

If William Hurt was just another ordinary Joe, you wouldn’t be so forgiving.

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Barbara R
Barbara R
3 years ago

I know a couple of women he got involved with on the UWS. One was my neighbor who had an ongoing “affair” with him. According to her he was arrogant, narcissistic, and abusive…..especially when he was drunk (which was always). Having said that and since I wasn’t the one involved with him…..I thought he was a stellar actor and loved him in every role he played.

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Carol
Carol
3 years ago

Wow. While I have enjoyed much of his work, I knew practically nothing else about him. Sounds like possibly that mantra was good for inspiration to others and good for his work, but if he followed that in some of his personal affairs, maybe not the best application of it.
Still…. The quote seemed to do the author some good.

Familiarity and vulnerability are certainly not the same, and in my experience, best to be real clear on those distinctions. Top-shelf confidence and familiarity can, in general, mask some deep needs.

I gotta say, though, if a guy showed-up to the park for a run with me like that, I’d prob get some sort of “cheesey” or peacock vibe.

Alas…. I did enjoy Mr. Hurt’s work, and I recall when watching him in Jane Eyre at the tiny movie house in Bath was the lone activity available to me before heading back to my hostel one evening.

Rest In Peace, Mr. Hurt. I hope you felt your life was full.

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Tom Mooney
Tom Mooney
3 years ago

So it’s OK for PT Flynn to “shame on you” ME, but you don’t print my retort that if it were his sister he might feel differently?
Thanks WEST SIDE RAG.
Tom Mooney

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Pierre Dakota
Pierre Dakota
3 years ago

Just before Thanksgiving 1969. I was looking for a ride from Boston to visit my parents in NYC. Bill had a Corvair that we rode from Tufts to his parents flat in NYC. We would ride back n forth for the Christmas holidays. He loved so much the song by Peter Paul n Mary : Leaving on a jet plane. He must have played that same song over n over I would got tired listening to it. By Spring 1970 I had my own ride. We remained very amicable. He was always happy to see me and very proud to offer to share the same cafeteria table with him.
For those of you who are claiming of Bill Hurt’s abusive behaviors. I challenged you to my observations which I thought were completely lopsided. Because, during those 3 yrs I was around Bill. OMG what most of the girls would do to get his attentions and lot of girls he befriended would easily claimed to be his girlfriend and tried to own him. He was a bit annoyed at time by their jealousies for not wanting to be involved with them. I have seen girls literally aroused by his presences. They would not leave him alone. He was like the Adonis and the Casanova to most of these girls Everyone of them wants a piece of him. Just him smiling to a girl would get her to start following him. His attractions and his kindness brought lot of toxic girls who were very so ready to own him. Again that was the time frame between 1969 to 1972, I thought he was persecuted by some of these girls for his good looks and apparently by his wealth status. My last interaction with Bill was in 1985. I sent him a congratulations card after winning his Oscar. He replied that he would check me out when he is visiting a friend near me. That never materialized since he was very popular. I never pursed him. I did not realize that we lived in the same city and state until his death. Have I known his address I would have made an effort to go visit him. Thus, I respected his privacy as I know how much he valued his privacy. Yet he was always very happy to see me. Knowing how much he was tormented by all these women fans who wanted a piece of him so much to have pushed his boundaries and limits which resulted of him into these abusive behaviors. It is easy to condemn not knowing how much he was tormented by these same ex lovers who turned around to call him an abuser for trying to get away from them while getting him into such situations. Women could not leave him alone. I am not defending his abusive behaviors. Did anyone ever take the time to think how much he was also being abused and harassed by these women who glorified him so much. These observations were before his stardom. I can imagine how much pains he got himself later on. May God rest his soul in peace. It was not easy to be William McChord Hurt.

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Colleen Komora
Colleen Komora
3 years ago

I have always believed William Hurt was exactly as you described him. Never any mention of The Last Full Measure, but he was exceptional in this film.
Thank you for sharing such a great story!

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